Goodbye. Since I've
been in college it’s become one of my least favorite words. Goodbye doesn't care if you are ready or
not. It doesn't wait for a convenient
time and it doesn't take its sweet time.
Thousands of clichés have been made about it; “be thankful you have
someone it is hard to say goodbye to”, “goodbye until we meet again”, “I don't
know why you say goodbye, I say hello”, etc. etc. etc. But the most truthful cliché is that, in the
moment, “there is no good in goodbye” because goodbye hurts. And I hate it. And I’m not ready to say it again on
Saturday.
As a freshman, I was blessed to be one of the lucky few
squirts to make upperclassmen friends. I’m
honestly not quite sure how it happened, but while it was incredibly nice and I
wouldn't trade it, it has meant that every year of college, I've lost good friends
to graduation. The nice thing is that it
has only been around five friends with each graduation...until this year. This year I’m losing over half of my friend
group, a couple of the best friends I've ever had, and a professor who has been
like a second father to me.
The last week has been a combination of mixed emotions as I
balanced work with friends, spending quality time with people who will soon be
graduating. Joy took Sorrow’s hand and
they have walked together. Those who are
leaving, during this week, I have coveted your time like a thirsty man craves water.
To my friends who are leaving (you know who you are), I
thank you for all of the time you have shared with me. I do not deserve friends as excellent as you. Proverbs 13:20 says “He who walks with wise
men will be wise” (MEV). I promise you
that I have walked with them and it is my hope that they have rubbed off on me,
even just a smidgen.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one, because
there is a good reward for their labor together. For if they fall, then
one will help up his companion. But woe
to him who is alone when he falls and has no one to help him up”
(MEV). When I have fallen, you have
picked me up. Through late night
conversations and fast food runs, hiking and camping trips, hall events, plays,
rehearsals, choral concerts, school trips, classes, impromptu adventures and so
much more, you have walked with me through the laughter and the tears, the good
times and the bad. From the bottom of my
heart, I thank you for that. Because of
you, I am a better person.
But as you all move on to a new chapter of your life, you
have my word that you will be in my prayers.
May God bless your endeavors and may you cling to him. Know that if you ever need a friend, someone
to talk to, or have a favor to ask, assuming I don’t have rehearsal (just
kidding...but really though...), come hell or high water, I will do everything
in my power to be there for you. So as I
say goodbye to you on Saturday for however long, know that I love each and
every one of you. May our paths cross
again and until then, as Paul said in Philippians 1:3, “I thank my God every
time I remember you” (NIV).